Everyone deserves to feel safe, respected and loved in their relationships. If you are experiencing harm, discomfort, or fear in your relationship, it may be time to get help.
Confidential advocates provide non-therapeutic support to help students determine their needs in regards to health (physical, mental, and emotional), reporting options, and academic concerns after experiencing sexual assault, dating violence, and/or stalking. They provide information on personal safety, boundaries, relationships, campus & community resources and can accompany students to incident-related appointments with police, Title IX, and more.
The advocates can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org, or at 804-828-6200.
Unhealthy relationships typically start out like all other relationships- they can be loving, exciting, and fun. Over time, red flags may begin to pop up that escalate a relationship to unhealthy levels.
Here are some red flags that a partner may be abusive or unhealthy:
If you’ve experienced any red flags, it’s not your fault.
Abusers use power and control to maintain unhealthy relationships. Abuse may happen physically, emotionally, financially compounded with isolation, and fear of retaliation. The Power and Control wheel is a resource used to understand how different forms of abuse can manifest in relationships and maintain power over another person, making it difficult to leave the relationship.
A safety plan is a personalized, practical plan to improve your safety while experiencing abuse, preparing to leave an abusive situation, or after you leave. This plan includes vital information tailored to your unique situation and will help you prepare for and respond to different scenarios, including telling your friends and family about your situation, coping with emotions, and various resources suited to your individual circumstances.
Head to loveisrespect.org to fill out a safety plan, or come in to see an advocate for assistance.
Free and confidential 24/7 resources for survivors
Information on ways to manage the challenges of relationships and develop close bonds.
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Love is Louder is a Jed Foundation, MTV, and Brittany Snow project to support anyone feeling mistreated, misunderstood, or alone. It is a movement for all types of people who come together to raise the volume around the message that love and support are louder than any internal or external voice that brings them down.
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